Forgiveness and a Giggle

Hello out there, how are you? Are you still going strong, sing a song and wash your hands???? ๐Ÿ˜‰

We are in extraordinary times. I do not know any time in my life when societies have been so divided like today. On top of that a pandemic. I always wonder when we entered this B-Movie horror film that’s called “reality”. So I felt this quote should remind us that love is the answer:

“Forgiveness is the attribute of the strong ~ Mahatma Gandhi”

video credit: The Top Ten Amazing via YouTube

There is a lot to forgive on any side of the coin of today’s problems but in the end all that counts is that we did the right thing and didn’t add to the confusion. But now to something entirely different…

Let’s have a giggle ๐Ÿ˜‰

The guide said to us:

“Most of all do not panic”

and the answer

is 42 anyway ๐Ÿ˜‰

video credit: BBC Studios via YouTube

Happy Thursday to you all despite everything ๐Ÿ™‚

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#Quote of the Day: Gotthold Ephraim Lessing

This quote was first posted in April 2015 when “Writer’s Quote Wednesday” still existed. Coleen has now moved her blog to “The Fairy Whisperer“:

Today I want to share a quote with you from an author or maybe more a dramaturg who has influenced my views on religions a lot with his play “Nathan the Wise“. Having been educated in Germany of course I had to read the play and I enjoyed it thoroughly. I also saw it once or twice in theatre which was much better.

The name of the man is Gotthold Ephraim Lessing one of the main representatives of German Enlightenment. His advocacy for religious tolerance had a deep impact on me when I was teenager and it still holds on to me even though I am quite suspicious towards organised religion.

The quote I am talking about is

Think wrongly, if you please, but by all means think for yourself!

For many years I thought the quote is Doris Lessing’s but I must have gotten that one wrong. Well….. ๐Ÿ˜‰

How does that motivate you as a writer? Well, it is especially important for writers to go their own way and to think their own thoughts. It is easy to copy what is out there, but like that, you won’t impress any reader. I even believe that we have to challenge the habitual thinking patterns of our readers to make them think for themselves in turn.

I really love the age of Enlightenment because it gave us a lot of freedom that we take for granted today. And it seems to me that we need a New Age Of Enlightenment as so many of our fellow human beings only seem to regurgitate what they heard or read on the internet, the TV or in the tabloids. If they think at all that is. Some only seem to live for feeding and coupling. Sorry for being negative….

Well, today I encourage you to think for yourself even if it is wrong….. I certainly try to day in day out!


This post takes part in Colleen’s wonderful “Writers Quote Wednesday”. Please head over and find more motivating quotes both in her posts and the comments. Thanks!

#Quote of the day: Howard Asher ~ a blast from the past

This was first posted in April 2015. “Writer’s Quote Wednesday” does no exist anymore:

There is no Writer’s Quote Wednesday over at Coleens Silverthreading as she is on holiday but I want to do it anyway. This book I am reading is occupying me a lot and I believe it holds a lot of wisdom.

The quote I am using is not exactly a “writer’s” quote but one of Sarah E. Olson’s therapist Howard Asher. But I believe it is motivating just the same:

” …This may sound pushy, but I have high standards for you. You have a right to, soon enough, feel like this is a very good life. You have not been cursed to just get by with minimal or “grin and bear it” pain. That’s a lousy standard. It’s a reasonable goal for you to like being you….”

Book Cover Becoming One by Sarah E. Olson

Taken from “Becoming One” by Sarah E. Olson, e-book version, Location 545. If this quote made you curious to find more wisdom from Mr Asher please head over to find out more about the book:

Sarah E. Olson social media links:

Blog:    Third of a Lifetime
Twitter: @SarahEOlson2009
Pinterest: SarahEOlson2009/

This post is part of Coleen’s Writer’s Quote Wednesday. Please head over and find wisdom, motivation and food for thought in her posts as well as the posts of other bloggers in the comments.

Quote of the Day by Helen Hayes

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Grey background with pink arrows on either side of the image. Purple writing in the middle saying:

โ€œFrom your parents, you learn love and laughter and how to put one foot before the other. But when books are opened you discover that you have wings.โ€ โ€• Helen Hayes”

Helen Hayes on Wikipedia

Helen Hayes MacArthurย (nรฉeย Brown; October 10, 1900 โ€“ March 17, 1993)[1]ย was an American actress whose career spanned almost 80 years. She eventually garnered the nickname “First Lady of American Theatre” and was one of 12 peopleย who have won an Emmy, a Grammy, an Oscar, and a Tony Award (an EGOT). Hayes also received theย Presidential Medal of Freedom, America’s highest civilian honor, from Presidentย Ronald Reaganย in 1986.[2]

In 1988, she was awarded theย National Medal of Arts. The annualย Helen Hayes Awards, which have recognized excellence in professional theatre in greater Washington, DC, since 1984, are her namesake. In 1955, the former Fulton Theatre on 46th Street in New York City’s Broadwayย Theater Districtย was renamed the Helen Hayes Theatre. When that venue was torn down in 1982, the nearby Little Theatre was renamed in her honor. Helen Hayes is regarded as one of the Greatest Leading Ladies of the 20th century theatre.[3]

QUOTE of the Day ~ Dissociation

โ€œFear and anxiety affect decision making in the direction of more caution and risk aversion… Traumatized individuals pay more attention to cues of threat than other experiences, and they interpret ambiguous stimuli and situations as threatening (Eyesenck, 1992), leading to more fear-driven decisions. In people with a dissociative disorder, certain parts are compelled to focus on the perception of danger. Living in trauma-time, these dissociative parts immediately perceive the present as being “just like” the past and “emergency” emotions such as fear, rage, or terror are immediately evoked, which compel impulsive decisions to engage in defensive behaviors (freeze, flight, fight, or collapse). When parts of you are triggered, more rational and grounded parts may be overwhelmed and unable to make effective decisions.โ€
โ€•ย Suzette Boon,ย Coping with Trauma-Related Dissociation: Skills Training for Patients and Therapists

Quote of the Day ~ Paul Sagan on Literacy

Description for visually impaired readers: Image of a row of trees and bushes with blue sky overhead and white clouds. Black writing says: Frederick Douglass taught that literacy is the path from slavery to freedom. There are many kinds of slavery and many kinds of freedom, but reading is still the path.” Paul Sagan


Goodreads on Paul Sagan:

In 1934, scientist Carl Sagan was born in Brooklyn, N.Y. After earning bachelor and master’s degrees at Cornell, Sagan earned a double doctorate at the University of Chicago in 1960. He became professor of astronomy and space science and director of the Laboratory for Planetary Studies at Cornell University, and co-founder of the Planetary Society. A great popularizer of science, Sagan produced the PBS series, “Cosmos,” which was Emmy and Peabody award-winning, and was watched by 500 million people in 60 countries. A book of the same title came out in 1980, and was on The New York Times bestseller list for 7 weeks. Sagan was author, co-author or editor of 20 books, includingย The Dragons of Edenย (1977), which won a Pulitzer,ย Pale Blue Dotย (1995) andย The Demon-Haunted World: Science As a Candle in the Darkย (1996), his hardest-hitting on religion…..


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