Re-blog: When Your Mum Speaks – Mum Chats about My Book! By Ritu Bhathal

What an incredible family! 🤗

Unfortunately, I could not re-blog the original post, so you have to click around a little but it’s so worth peeps. 👍

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I’ll let you know what I think once chemo brain fog decides to leave me. Happy Saturday to you all! 🙋‍♀️🐝

If you want to read about what my Mum thought of Marriage Unarranged, please, click below!

When Your Mum Speaks – Mum Chats about My Book!
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Re-Post: Teaser Tuesday: The Authors Guide To Working With Book Bloggers

August 2020

I am not quite sure how uncertain authors are today about working with book bloggers. Blogs are certainly much more “a thing” than they were in 2015. So maybe this quote isn’t that up to date anymore. However, Barb Drozdowitch is a brilliant social media advisor, and it’s worth checking out her page and books. That is why I re-publish this post. You find the link later on:

June 2015

Today’s Teaser Tuesday goes a little non-fictional. But as most of us here are bloggers or book authors and blogs, that review books, become more and more important, I found this book a great idea.

About the author

Barb Drozdowitch is a Social Media and WordPress consultant and has written 6 books in her “Building Blocks to Author Success” series. I am reading her newest “The Author’s Guide to Working With Book Bloggers” for BookTourTips and found it a very helpful book.
Looks to me like authors have a lot harder nowadays to be discovered as there are so many more books out there. So even though publishing itself has become much easier for authors, the promotion work has become much harder.
Any guide that can help you find out what to do and how to get readers is a good thing in my eyes.
Find out more about Barb on her page: Helping One Author At A Time.

My Teaser

And here is my teaser:
A common complaint I hear from authors is that the questions are stupid or a waste of time. My response is that the authors need to take what their given and form it into something they want to represent them and their books.
Barb Drozdowich, “The Author’s Guide to Working with Book Bloggers”, BookTrope Editions, Chapter 9 “The Interview”


“Teaser Tuesdays is a weekly bookish meme, hosted by MizB of A Daily Rhythm. Anyone can play along! Just do the


• Grab your current read
• Open to a random page
• Share two (2) “teaser” sentences from somewhere on that page
• BE CAREFUL NOT TO INCLUDE SPOILERS! (make sure that what you share doesn’t give too much away! You don’t want to ruin the book for others!)
• Share the title & author, too, so that other TT participants can add the book to their TBR Lists if they like your teasers!”

Blast from the Past: The Bee Talks With… Rachel Thompson

October 2019

Today I share an author interview from 2015 with an incredible lady:

May 2015

Profile Picture R. Thompson via Goodreads

Rachel Thompson profile picture
via Goodreads

Today I am happy to introduce you to Rachel Thompson. She is a writer with topics close to my heart: sexual abuse, suicide, healing and love and she does it in poetic words. Her new book “Broken Places” is out and it’s on my reading list.

But no more words. Let Rachel tell you more about herself and her writing experience:

*How would you describe yourself in one paragraph?  

Determined, compassionate, driven, lover, quietly powerful.

•A fun fact about you?  

I took 10 years of classical piano, though I mostly play Beatles songs. I can pick out pretty much any melody by ear, though.

•What made you write in the first place?  

I fell in love with The Secret Garden in fourth grade and decided I wanted to write a book as amazing as that. It’s still a goal!

•Which Author has influenced you and why?  

John Irving — I love how rich his characters are.

•What is your favourite book?  

The Time-Traveler’s Wife by Audrey Niffenegger — it has all the elements of a great story: a hero’s journey, time travel, romance, mythology, beautiful language, interesting characters, a plot that moves. I have read it repeatedly.

•Your writing ritual (if you have one)?  

I find a word or phrase that moves me and noodle it for awhile. Eventually, I shut out all the ‘noise’ of life — no internet, no kids, no phone — and typically turn on some quiet music and just write without editing, just letting it flow. Getting that first draft out is so important.

•Your secret “sin” when you write?  

Other than no self-editing, that’s really it.

•Do you suffer from writers block and if, what do you do against it?

Not really block, more making myself focus and do it.

•Your advice for apprentice writers?

Don’t self-edit. Write what scares you. Don’t think about what ‘others’ will say — nobody can see your screen except for you, so go for it!

Thank you very much Rachel for letting us have a peek into your writing experience.

Book cover R Thompson Broken Places

Photo source: Goodreads

Rachel’s “Broken Places”

If you want to know more about Rachel, please have a look here:

Rachel’s homepage
Rachel on Twitter
Rachel on Facebook
Rachel on Amazon

Rachel’s “Broken Places” on Goodreads

Blast from the Past: The Bee Talks With… Khalid Muhammad

photo of Khalid Muhammad

photo of Khalid Muhammad

September 2019
Another blast from the past author interview
December 2014
Life can be ironic but maybe there are no co-incidents:
A day after Malala Yousafzai born in Pakistan’s Swat Valley received the Peace Nobel Prize an author born in the same place has agreed to talk to The Bee:
I am very proud to introduce you to Khalid Muhammad author of “Agency Rules ~ Never a Quiet Day At The Office” that will give you an inside point of view of what is going on Pakistan. But I’ll let the man speak for himself:
How would you describe yourself in one paragraph?
“I only need one word – driven. My childhood was filled with disappointments and hardship, it taught me one thing – never give up. I am very outgoing in my personality, always around to help others, but at the same time, I know what I want and will find a way to get there, no matter what it takes.
What made you write in the first place?
Well, I would have to take you back to 7thgrade English to explain that one. My English teacher was someone who encouraged us to express ourselves through writing. There were never any bounds placed on what we could write in our composition time. I still have some of the stuff that I wrote back in that class. It’s an angry teenager venting what he sees wrong with the world, explaining how things could be done better and looking for support and acceptance for his views. I think that is where I caught the bug.
If you are asking in terms of my current novel, Agency Rules – Never an Easy Day at the Office, the motivation was to tell the story of where Pakistan has come from and what we have been through internally to end up at the place that the media likes to highlight every evening. This was not a quick trip. The nation is not a haven for terrorists, but we do have a great deal of confusion in the narrative and no one seems to be able to tell the story right. My book is a path to learning what happened to Pakistan to make it the way it is, rather than offering a standard War on Terror symbolic novel. I wanted people to know what my Pakistan is all about – that we are a nation of good people; that we are a nation struggling to find our identity again after having it hijacked by extremists and terrorists and that we are a country that deserves to be explored because one visit to Pakistan and you’ll never believe what the media is tell you anymore.
Which Author has influenced you and why?
I would have to say that two authors greatly influenced me and my writing style. John LeCarre is one of my favorites. His ability to craft a character that is both dark and good is something that I am just honing in my own writing. Kamal Khan, my protagonist, is exactly that. He is quite dark from the perspective of the traditional playboy spy that readers are accustom to, but his intentions are always good for his nation and people.
The second author that has really influenced me is Fredrick Forsyth. Forsyth is a storyteller in the greatest form. He takes you from one location to another without skipping a beat. He will place you there and create an environment that actually makes you feel like you are really there. That is a fantastic ability to have and it’s something that I hope I will be able to achieve in my writing as time goes on.
Your writing ritual (if you have one)?
I don’t know if I would call it a ritual, but I am very set in the way that I write. I am one of those that jots and scribbles throughout the day and in the evening, during the quiet of the night, I settle in with a yellow legal pad and pen to start writing. I tried to do my writing on a computer at first, but I found that I am not able to type as fast as I think so I would have to go back and re-edit rather than stay in the stream of thought as I wrote. When I switched to the pad and pen method, I found that my writing got a lot clearer and the story developed easier for me.
Once I am done writing a chapter, I punch it into my computer and then start editing out and expanding on what is already there. It’s a longer process than some have, but it gives me a better result.
Granted, none of it would work without the thundering beat of heavy metal and hard rock in my headphones. It helps me go to the world that I am creating and forget everything else around me.
Do you suffer from writers block and if, what do you do against it?
I constantly suffer from writer’s block. I think you have to when you are writing otherwise it gets old and stale. My cure for writer’s block is television and books. It helps me to refresh my mind while entertaining me at the same time.
Your advice for apprentice writers?
Don’t get caught up in what people might think of your writing. Everyone goes through an adjustment phase where they have to get their internal thoughts to link up with the written word. The problem that most aspiring writers, including myself, have is that we try to perfect the writing thinking of what the reader is going to write in a review. That’s the worst way to write.
I tell the aspiring writers that talk to me to write for themselves. Tell your story the way you want to tell it. And for God’s sake, don’t take the reviews that you get to heart. Everyone has an opinion based on what they think, have read in the past and it comes out in their reviews. Most of the people who really love your book will not write a review, they will tell other people about it and spread the word that way. Your biggest fans will never make themselves public. They will reach out in private to tell you the impact your work had on them, how much they appreciated your writing and to encourage you to write more. Those are the people that I write for and those are the people that everyone else should write for.”
Thank you, Khalid, for visiting “The Bee Writes…” and letting us know a little about your writing life.
You are curious and want to know more about Khalid and his book? Please read on:
Blurb for Agency Rules – Never an Easy Day at the Office

Celebrated as a ragtag force that defeated and broke the Soviet Union, no one predicted the Mujahideen would bring with them a plague that would spread like wildfire through Pakistan in the years to follow. When the battle-worn fighters returned with no enemy or war to fight, they turned their sights on the country that had been their creator and benefactor.

From the same battlegrounds that birthed the Mujahideen, a young Kamal Khan emerges as a different breed of warrior. Discarding his wealthy family comforts, Kamal becomes a precision sniper, an invincible commando and a clandestine operative bringing intimidation, dominance and death with him to the battlefield. Ending the plague is his prime directive.

Shrouded in political expediency, hampered by internal power struggles, international espionage and doublespeak that makes Washington’s spin doctors proud, Kamal’s mission is a nightmare of rampant militant fundamentalism that threatens to choke and take Pakistan hostage. For him, the fight is not just for freedom, but the survival of a nation.


Book Cover Agency Rules by Khalid Muhammad

Photo Book Cover: “Agency Rules”

Author Bio:

By day, Khalid Muhammad is a mild-mannered business executive keeping busy running a marketing and brand management company. By night, his alter ego emerges; one that has a penchant for sadistic retribution towards those who wrong others, and that spends its time devising intricate and detailed plans for a nefarious end.

Born in Pakistan’s troubled Swat Valley, educated and raised in the United States, Khalid returned to Pakistan almost 17 years ago and fell in love with his country. His debut novel, Agency Rules – Never an Easy Day at the Office, is a journey behind the headlines about Pakistan, the world’s most dangerous place, to deliver an intense story that will challenge the reader to question everything they have been told about the country.

He began writing to let the wickedness escape, as the other option means a great deal of blood, numerous torture implements and… well, infinite ways to dump a body. It’s safer for everyone involved and less dangerous for the guilty… until he writes another book.

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Blast from the Past: The Bee Talks With… Allie Burke

Portrait of Allie BurkeToday, a little out of the usual “The Bee Talks With…”-rhythm, I am happy to introduce to Allie Burke. She is a young author from Burbank, California, who writes books she can’t find anywhere in a bookstore as she says on her homepage.
It is close to the end of her virtual book tour with where she introduces her acclaimed “Enchanters” series. And again I am meeting someone who can say everything in just a few words. Now that speaks of talent. But without further ado let’s see what she has to say:
“How would you describe yourself in one paragraph?
I am a societal rebel, loyal friend and represented by tough love. That’s really it. There’s no way I could talk about myself for an entire paragraph.
A fun fact about you?
I’m not actually as badass and hardcore as people think I am.
What made you write in the first place?
I was bored.
Which author has influenced you and why?
Maggie Stiefvater, because she effectively writes what’s in my head.
What is your favourite book?
The Fault in Our Stars.
Your writing ritual (if you have one)?
No, I don’t have one. I just write.
Your secret “sin” when you write?
That made me laugh. I don’t even know what that means.
Do you suffer from writers block and if, what do you do against it?
No, there’s no such thing as writer’s block. It’s an excuse for lazy people.
Your advice for apprentice writers?
Stop calling yourselves aspiring, writers. If you write, you’re a writer. This is what Tymothy Longoria told me when I was writing my first book, and it was the best writing advice I’ve ever received. Well, I never listened to any of the other advice, but that’s not the point.”
Thank you very much, Allie, for letting us have a peek into your writing experience.
Image of Enchanted Series books
If you want to know more about Allie, please have a look here:
Allie’s homepage
Allie on Twitter
Allie on Facebook
Allie on Amazon
Allie’s Enchanters Series on Goodreads

Blast from the Past: The Bee Talks With… Sarah E. Olson

Book Cover Becoming One by Sarah E. Olson

This was first posted in April 2015:

Today I feel honored to host Sarah E. Olson who kindly agreed to answer my questions. Sarah has written a book called “Becoming One” where she describes her healing journey from abuse victim who has dissociated to becoming one and supporting others via her blog “Third Of A Lifetime”.

I will post a review of “Becoming One” tomorrow and I can only say that it is a powerful book. But enough said: here is what Sarah has to say for herself:

“How would you describe yourself in one paragraph?

Thank you for inviting me to your blog, Bee! I’m the author of Becoming One: A Story of Triumph Over Dissociative Identity Disorder, and have been active in online child abuse survivor support groups and talking with survivors for 20+ years. I curate links dealing with PTSD on my blog, Twitter, and Pinterest. My husband Dan and I live south of Boston with three inside cats who rule everything. I enjoy living in New England with its vivid changing seasons, although this winter has tested me! I began writing as a child, and never stopped. I’m intellectually curious, and relentless in tracking down details, which both helps and hinders productivity. In nonfiction, I read a lot about psychological trauma treatment, while in fiction, I primarily read police procedurals, dystopian novels, and dark psychological thrillers. There is often an overlap between my nonfiction and fiction interests. As one example, I loved The Hunger Games trilogy, not just for its story of revolution, but for how Katniss’s multiple traumas were subtly developed into very recognizable PTSD symptoms over the length of the series. It felt authentic to me. Fiction or nonfiction, I always want to read things that make me think.

A fun fact about you?

A strange artifact of my childhood abuse is that I hear music in my left ear, which is otherwise nearly deaf. It’s not music from an external source — it emanates from within my head. 🙂 I can’t change it, override it, or turn it off, and sometimes the selection is incredibly annoying. Like, why the muzak version of Sarah McLachlan’s “Angel” on endless repeat when I love her original?! Sometimes I can sing harmony with myself, which makes me laugh! It seems to pick up volume when I’m stressed. It’s not crazy or schizophrenic; it’s a dissociative thing that I accept as part of me. I’ll be exploring this and similar phenomena in more depth in my follow-up book titled Becoming One Every Day: Living Purposefully with Dissociative Identity Disorder, due in late 2015.

What made you write in the first place?

As a child, I began writing fairy tale stories which featured bright, beautiful, most-loved, and safe little girls. I wasn’t getting much of that in real life. In high school, I wrote poetry and short stories which I showed no one. As an adult, I trained to be a paralegal — a ghostwriter for attorneys. I’d learned my entire life that attention was not a good thing, so instead of going to law school I chose a support profession which guaranteed I would never receive credit for my writing. My quest for the last 20 years has been to challenge myself to risk putting my writing out there in a public way.

Which Author has influenced you and why? Combined with “What is your favourite book?”

I first read The Talisman, by Stephen King and Peter Stroub, about 30 years ago, and have reread it several times. It describes an alternate — but adjacent — universe to our own, kept separate by a force field which occasionally rips open and creates chaos in both worlds. It introduces the idea of ‘twinners,’ whereby if you are a happy person here, you have a twinner in the other realm with darker aspects. Or if you are evil here, your twinner is most likely fighting for forces of good on the other side. A lonely little boy accidentally steps into the other reality, and learns that he must find the Talisman which will either unite both realms or destroy them.

I read The Talisman long before I was formally diagnosed with Dissociative Identity Disorder. The intriguing notion that there were ‘twinners’ in a nearby alternate reality hit me as very close to home, and fascinated me. I’d often felt that I must have crossed some huge surreal force field where all the rules and people were different, but somehow still very weirdly familiar. And I could never explain it, to myself or anyone else — but here was a book that offered an alternate reality that actually made some sense of my bizarre life. I believe that reading The Talisman made me much more open to exploring alternate realities within me, in therapy, than I’d ever have entertained otherwise.

Your writing ritual (if you have one)?

I don’t really have a ritual. I’m grateful any time I feel inspired, and take notes in those moments so I won’t lose the thread of what was important about it. At any one time I have numerous projects, fiction and nonfiction, floating around in my brain, but I’ve learned that I must really focus on one at a time or nothing gets finished.

Your secret “sin” when you write?

I drink far too much coffee! 🙂

Do you suffer from writer’s block and if, what do you do against it?

I do get writer’s block. For me, it’s about procrastination paired with perfectionism. Somewhere as a child I learned that if I can’t do it perfectly, I shouldn’t do it at all, which then makes me delay even trying. I fight that self-judgment daily, because it just stops me cold sometimes. I want the writings I put out into the world to be as good as they can be, but if I wait for “perfect” they’ll never be released. My commitment to myself this last year has been to finish things, which is why the ebook version of Becoming One exists today.

Your advice for apprentice writers?

No matter what you want to write, fiction or nonfiction, you need to keep writing. You need practice to learn your style and hone your voice. Like any skill, you get better the more you work it. At the same time, don’t stop reading! You can learn so much about writing craft by examining how other writers do it.

Beyond that, there’s never been a more exciting time to be a writer! You can control your own writing destiny, either by self-publishing or seeking a traditional publisher. Becoming One was first published by a very small press in 1997, and I was grateful for that opportunity. But today, with self-publishing, there are no gatekeepers, and you have choices that didn’t exist 20 years ago. Research those choices carefully, to be fully informed about whatever path you choose.

A great place to start that research is at to which I’ve subscribed for five+ years. Joanna Penn has steadfastly and honestly blogged her journey from being a blogger who writes about writing, to taking the leap into writing thrillers. Her website is a wealth of information for anyone looking to get started with writing and publishing. (I have no affiliation with her other than knowing that she is a genuinely helpful and generous person.)”

Thank you again, Bee, for your hospitality!

You are very welcome!


Please find her book on Amazon (link. below). A countdown deal of $.99 runs from 31. March to 6. April 2015 both on Amazon UK and US and it is also available on Kindle Unlimited.


Please find out more about Sarah here:

Sarah onTwitter
Sarah onPinterest


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Of Good News, Coding and Tips for Writers

Everyone has inside of him a piece of good news. The good news is that you don’t know how great you can be! How much you can love! What you can accomplish! And what your potential is! Anne Frank

Read more at Brainy Quotes

Hello everybody, how are you doing? I hope life is treating you well and if not remember, you are in my thoughts and prayers!

Happy Good News Tuesday!

For today’s good news I am sharing a video by Great Ormond Street Hospital. Their surgeons have separated conjoined twins in several operations. The BBC mentioned them yesterday and I am just amazed at what is possible today. You can read about it in this article on the BBC webpage.

As far as I understand they are well and hopefully now have the chance for an independent life. Great Ormond Street Hospital has made a video to explain further what they achieved. Please follow the link under the video if it doesn’t play in this post.

video credit: Great Ormond Street Hospital on YouTube

If you are in need for some more good news please head over to JoAnna’s Blog and find some more. Or do you have a post of your own? Then please let me know and I come along.

The Bee Codes (or at least tries to)

It was rather cold overnight here in North Norfolk but warmed up as soon as the sun came out. At 10.49 am we have 19C/66.2F and I already watered our veg, did some weeding and worked on a page project for Free Code Camp to finish the tests for learning HTML & CSS. They say about themselves: “ is a tiny nonprofit that’s helping millions of people learn to code for free.” and you can support them here on their donation page if you have a little to spent and want to help people like me learning to code and hopefully find a new job at last.

I am supposed to create a tribute page on Code.Pen which is a site where you can play around with code for free. The test description is here if you are interested and my page to Octavia Hill is here.

So far I have the basic set up and the HTML. HTML in coding gives you the content of a page and CSS helps you to present in a good way. That is where I struggle a little. I have read and gone through the chapters and in theory understood what everything stands for but when I am supposed to implement it then my mind goes blank.

And the procrastination automatism kicks in. Mine consists of W3School for reading up stuff, Sololearn which I have as an app on my phone to repeat everything I already know and Grasshopper to get ahead and play around with JavaScript. I didn’t know that Java and JavaScript are different things but the good old “For Dummies” series told me that. Yes, on top of all of that I am reading “Getting a Coding Job for Dummies” by Nikhil Abraham. That book is from the library and from 2015 so I take its information with a grain of salt. 4 years is several lifetimes in tech and coding as far as I can see but at least it should give me the basics. And it mentioned Free Code Camp as a good way to learn so it can’t be that bad 😉 .

It also mentioned that if you learn by yourself you get stuck and it would be a good thing to join a community to get some support. Coding seems to be a community thing anyway. Coders help each other when they get stuck with what they created or help each other to test out their code. I like that but at the same time I am a little well really very insecure and I just don’t like to ask. So here is a lesson for me to learn 🙂 .

Yes, I have already joined the Free Code Camp forum and read several posts but haven’t said or asked anything yet. Don’t want to waste anyone’s time. I think I might just have to get over myself. I keep you updated.

Have you ever tried to learn something by yourself? How did it go?

And what else?

And what else will I be up to today? I usually walk the dog a second time around lunchtime but she is a little reluctant lately. There are tons of squirrels where I walk her and she just stands there and watches before trying to jump at them. You can imagine that I am not too keen so I try to coax her into walking along. It wasn’t a problem until a couple of days ago. She just ran ahead to the next squirrel tree. But now she just stands there and looks at me and her eyes say: “Yes, go on, try me!!!! You’re not gonna win MUM!” LOL.

So today I will either walk her somewhere else which usually makes her run mad with sniffing out the new area or I just do some training at home in the garden. I feel a bit guilty driving to other places to walk her because I consider myself a rebel for life and using the good old petrol car should be out of bounds for me. However, it’s a little C1 that doesn’t use much and the wellbeing of our dog is important, isn’t it? So I tell myself 😉 at least.

Besides that, I might keep on renovating our bathroom. It’s tiny and pink and I hate, hate, hate pink. So I started to scrape off the color on the wall in March I think. Haven’t gotten far because it is a rather unthankful job. But I told the best husband (Jeremy Clarkson voice) in the world that he doesn’t need to do anything so I am stuck with it.

I also need to do the shopping and get some more dog food. And cook. And then there are so many cool blogs to read which I have neglected a lot lately.

Here are some of the bloggers I visit:

Karen Deanna Joyce


And for my German-speaking readers:


Well, I won’t be bored, will I?

Originally I wanted to write a poem for you guys too but my concentration is down in the dumps now. I need another coffee or something to eat so I send you over to Carol Anne where I have posted a poem of the day already.

This just leaves today’s blast from the past from 2015:

Tips For Writers by John Matthews (A Blast from the Past)

Today I am honoured to have a guest post John Matthews who has kindly agreed for a guest post on writing tips for self-published authors:

Three Key Tips For Writers

If you’re a self-published author or are now diligently working on your first book, then read these three important tips for writers. Competition is fierce to become successful and achieve your sales goals. You need to establish your brand as a writer one step at a time and get credibility. It is important to be proactive, work efficiently, and have a lot of patience with the self-publishing world.

  • Create the best content possible. The tougher the competition is, the more important it is to produce a top notch manuscript. Read other best-selling authors in your genre to get ideas of which writing styles work. Learn from their successes and improve your writing technique. The best writing methods have held true for decades and as new authors, we all have a ton of learning to do. Once you think your manuscript is finished, get a few close friends to read it and give honest feedback. Use any constructive criticism positively. Tweak your manuscript as you see fit until you are really ecstatic about your final product. Finally, get it edited and proofread by other friends and a professional. Make sure that book is squeaky clean when you are ready to publish it.
  • Pitch to book review blogs. Find lists of blogs that do book reviews for self-published authors. Make sure that their reading preference includes your genre. Read about the bloggers first and take a look at their social network profiles. Take a look also at other book reviews that have been posted on their blog. If it looks like a good fit for your book, send a courteous and professional email. First have a close look at the submission guidelines on each blog so you can meet their specific requirements. Remember that you are only sending a request for a book review and that anyone has the right to politely decline it. Book reviewers are very busy and usually get more submissions than they can keep up with. Here is a helpful list of ten great book review blogs.
  • Organize your marketing efforts. There are a lot of options for self-published author marketing. What’s important is to manage your time and money effectively. Know what your budget is and try to do as much of the work yourself as you can to keep things low cost or free. Find websites and blogs for self-published books that have forums and accept guest posts. Write high quality articles for submission on these sites and participate in forum discussions in your genre. You have to have time to keep writing your next book, so don’t allot more than half of your working time to marketing. Maintain a list of all blogs and other websites you are working with. Get into a daily routine for your marketing efforts and be efficient. Patience is key and remember that everything you write is important for establishing your brand as a writer.

Using these three key tips for writers should help you in your writing career. As is always the case with self-published authors, patience is the key. Establishing yourself will take time and perseverance, but if you succeed the payoff will be well worth it.


Thank you very much John for your tips on self-publishing!

If you want to know more about John please look here:

John Mathews is a tenured University Professor of English and living in Rome, Italy. Immersed in a long and somewhat stressful career, he feels the desire to break out of the mold and delve into macabre thriller fiction novels which focus on the dark side of human nature. He writes captivating thriller and suspense fiction books with the goal of pulling the reader into the plot through the minds of unforgettable characters. Complete with great suspense, plot twists, and shocking scenes, his stories will keep you guessing until the very end.

(Taken from John’s Amazon Author Page)

You’ve managed to read the whole post? Blimey, I am impressed and thank you very much for staying with me for so long. Want a cup of coffee? Tea? Cocoa? A cookie? You certainly deserve all of it. LOL.

Take care my dears and don’t forget:

love & rage my friends love & rage

Life happens or am I the only one?

Quote by Charles R. Swindoll: "Life is 10% what happens to you and 90% how you react to it."
photo credit: Brainy Quote

Good Morning, my dear readers. How are you doing? I hope life is treating you well. I am just back from my morning walk with Sherky who happily tried to hunt squirrels. Unfortunately for her, she is on a lead… She makes me laugh every time when she squeals because she really, really wants that squirrel.

I use these walks to meditate when I don’t have to calm down the crazy greyhound (I know it’s not her fault and she is far from crazy but hey…). It feels good to calm down my inner chatter of worry and somehow several different ways of meditation have developed. Today I chose to connect with my inner teacher. I got this idea from a chant I am listening to often lately which you can find on Meditative Mind’s YouTube Channel here. The Mantra that is repeated means: I bow to the universal creative wisdom. I bow to the divine teacher within.

For me there is no doubt that we all have inner wisdom we just do not always know how to listen to it. So my walk is mindful, listening to whats inside and as I am not a master also accepting my worry voices and letting them go. Its ongoing practice. A good one I feel.

Do you have a meditation practice you follow? How do you go about it?

My quest for wisdom of different sorts doesn’t stop there though. When I come home I consult Guardian Angel cards and one or the other sort of card by Colette Baron-Reid.

Today the Guardian Angels told me this:

Time to transform your perceptions into prosperity. Luck is with you today. You will be shown what to do next.

It is quite scary that this message comes up because my mindset is something I am pondering a lot lately. I am so fed up with feeling that I am a victim, that there is no job for me out there and not enough abundance either. Over time I have observed how successful people seem to think. To me it seems it is a positive spin on everything they do no matter how many setbacks they have. They do keep going and I feel that is something to pick up on.

I wonder a lot lately if its only me who seeks guidance from a higher source however you might call it. Surely even the starkest atheist uses something as his or her guidance to go forward and know what’s right or wrong for them? And science isn’t always as true and right as we might believe. What do you think?

The second guidance I chose today are Baron-Reid’s Wisdom of the Oracle cards which I don’t usually like. They usually tell me things I don’t want to hear. Today’s message basically is: You are the only one to get yourself out of your own sh.., listen closely and make sure you take good care of yourself.

Fair enough 🙂

At the moment I sit at the table in our front room (yes we call it “library” because we have all our books in there 😉 ) and can look through the window out on a blue but cloudy sky. One branch of the clematis sashays in a light breeze and the weather app tells me it is 19c/66.2F. It’s about 10AM.

I am so grateful that I have this time to sit and ponder life and to write. It feels like I slowly come back from the caged animal I have been for such a long time. But I just sit in the door not ready yet to go out and change what needs changing.

A little later my beautiful daughter from another mother will arrive to spent the weekend with us. She is homeschooled by her mother for a couple of years but unfortunately we haven’t managed to engage too in her education. Communication isn’t going well but maybe that is just a teenager thing and will change once she has outgrown all the angst and worry. I am hoping because I have learned if I “do” stuff and try to change something it usually backfires in some sort of way. So I wait and when she is ready I will be there as honest as I can be.

I often wonder how she sees her future. When I was her age I struggled with my mothers death and with the fear of a nuclear war breaking out and of course the environment. Acidic rain and air pollution were the main topics then. The difference I am seeing is that we had time to change things. Well, we perceived we had time. About 11 years are left and politicians and big business do jack sh.. to change anything because they are under the illusion that they can… well, what can they? Hide in a bunker? Get rid of the minions and bath in the riches they accumulated? Not quite sure how they want to eat their cash when noone can grow any food anymore but what do I know?

video credit: Just Have A Think via YouTube

I am not sure I want to go any further into this. Our news are full of the Tory leadership contest and I just can’t bear it anymore. Even though I prefer Mr Hunt (at least he stood up to the orange bafoon in the White House and said to keep Sir Daroch on) I believe either just promise us heaven on earth to keep the tories together and not to make our life better. But again what do I know?

And when I look at the state of the environment very soon the squabble of the political elite will be our least problem anyway. So I rather have a look at what Extinction Rebellion is up to here in their latest newsletter. I see myself as a rebel for life as they put it even though I am not going to die-ins or stick myself to streets and buildings. That’s not my style even though I am rather tempted to go to one of their bike rides in Norwich.

Currently I see my position in creating poetry that works on questions of worry, sadness, grief, wondering and hope about our environment and giving you bits and pieces to make up your own mind about the worldwide movement called Extinction Rebellion. Find more information about them here in their FAQ’s.

Then there is Wimbledon. I am not interested even though young Coco Gauff has impressed me a lot. Wimbledon for me means to think of my grandad who always watched it and my auntie who is a fully blown Roger Federer fan. She is from Switzerland so she can’t help it I guess 😉 (sorry aunty…)

Yesterday I changed to WordPress’s new block editor. Not sure what to make of it. I have started to learn coding via FreeCodeCamp some months ago and know a little about HTML and CSS but this editor seems a little confusing. But before I judge I am going to use it more and try to use my newfound knowledge to create something cool. Just not today LOL.

I guess I move on now. Still want to write down what good luck I had yesterday and what I am grateful for but I am not bothering you with it today 🙂 . Better leave you with a “Blast from the Past: Interview with Judith Works from 2015:

Portrait of Judith Works

February 2015

Today I am honoured to introduce you to Judith Works who has been living in Italy for 10 years and used her experiences in her two novels “City of Illusions” and “Coins In The Fountain”. She has kindly reached out to me and answered the questions and for that reason I won’t keep you from reading:

“How would you describe yourself in one paragraph?

I am a traveler and a writer who lived in Rome for ten years while working for the United Nations as an attorney in the Human Resource department. The experience turned me into a lover of all things Italian and also resulted in many friendships which I still treasure. I have visited over 100 countries but always return to Rome to throw a coin in the Trevi Fountain to ensure yet another return. My husband and I will be there again this spring.

A fun fact about you?

It wasn’t fun at the time, but I slept for a month on a deflated air mattress and cardboard on the marble floor in our empty apartment in Rome. Furniture had not yet arrived.

What made you write in the first place?

When I returned from Rome I wanted to capture the experience for others to enjoy. The stories resulted in a memoir titled Coins in the Fountain. Since that time I have continued to write, now with the novel, City of Illusions.

What author has influenced you and why?

Reading the lovely books about life in Tuscany by Frances Mayes was an inspiration. My experiences were not the same (no Tuscan Farmhouse and some dangerous experiences in Rome) but Ms. Mayes captures the lure of Italy and I wanted to do the same.

What is your favourite book? 

My favourite book is usually what I am reading, but if I have to choose one I would say it is Memoirs of Hadrian by Marguerite Yourcenar.

Your writing ritual? 

I am a morning person, so it’s up at 6:00 with coffee. Also, I have a pad and pencil beside the bed in case a have a thought in the middle of the night.

Your “secret” sin when you write?

dark chocolate!!

Do you suffer from writers block and if, what do you do against it? 

I do “suffer” sometimes. I think a walk is always a good idea to clear my head.

Your advice for apprentice writers?

Recognize that unless you are a genius writing is hard work and it takes time to get it right. Also, the ability to receive and consider critique is essential.

What is in it for you?

I find writing a satisfying – a chance to put thoughts in order and to convey experiences to others. No doubt a feeling shared by other creative people.”

Dear Judith, thank you so much for giving us a glimpse of your writing life. May your return to Rome be blessed!

Book Cover of City of Illusions

You would like to know more about Judith and her work? Please look here:

Judith on Facebook
Judith’s Blog
Judith on Twitter
Judith’s Website 
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I love the fact that we now can have such close relationships with authors and often see their writing progress too. Isn’t that gorgeous? Which reminds me that one of my plans for this year was to publish another poetry book. This time I would need someone to beta read as I can’t afford an editor. Anyone interested?

Up until then could you please be so kind and do some advertising for me? I have put up some of my photos for purchasing via Dreamstime.

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greyhound Sherky looking for a squirrel on Paston Way
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A happy life

just eat, walk and sleep

drama behind me

Thanks for stopping by. It’s been a pleasure to spent some time with you. Be asured you are in my thoughts and prayers. I pray for the whole world because I believe we desperately need it. In this sense

Love & Rage my friends Love & Rage

The Bee Talks With… Maria Luisa Lang

This post was first published in July 2017

Today I am honoured to introduce you to author and amateur Egyptologist Maria Luisa Lang who has written two interesting novels with a walking and talking cat. How curious is that?

She has been so kind to let us know more about her way of writing and about herself and with no further ado I let Maria introduce herself:

How would you describe yourself in one paragraph?

I was born in Italy and live in New York City. I have a degree in art from the City University of New York, and my artwork has been exhibited in New York galleries. I love all animals, especially cats, and I’m an amateur Egyptologist. I’ve published two novels, The Pharaoh’s Cat and The Eye of Nefertiti. The latter is both a sequel to The Pharaoh’s Cat and a standalone novel.

A fun fact about you?

I enjoy going to flea markets and thrift shops. So, not surprisingly, my cat visits a Bath flea market in The Eye of Nefertiti.

What made you write in the first place?

I’ve sketched and painted, and writing seemed a natural extension. Writing seems to be in my blood. My mother wrote a memoir of her experiences in Rome during the war, and one of my brothers is a noted Italian art critic and the author of several books and numerous articles. I’m fascinated by both cats and ancient Egypt and wanted to make an ancient Egyptian cat my protagonist. I also wanted to make ancient Egypt funny, and I’ve always felt that cats are natural comedians.

Which author has influenced you and why?

There are two actually: Kingsley Amis and Mikhail Bulgakov. I’ve been heavily influenced by Amis’s style of comedy and Bulgakov’s kind of fantasy. I describe my two novels as adult comedy, fantasy, historical. Without the creative freedom comedy and fantasy gave me, I couldn’t have written the novels I wanted to, one not only set in ancient Egypt but reflecting my love of cats.

What is your favourite book?

Again there are two: Amis’s Lucky Jim and Bulgakov’s Master and Margarita. One of Bulgakov’s characters is a cat who talks and walks upright, but the resemblance to my cat ends there. Bulgakov’s cat is a demon. Mine is no saint, but he has heroic qualities.

Your writing ritual (if you have one)?

I come up with my best ideas in the middle of the night. It must be the quiet.

Your secret “sin” when you write?

I often stop writing to count the pages I’ve already written. It gives me a break and reassures me.

Do you suffer from writer’s block, and if so, what do you do against it?

With me, it’s the opposite. My problem isn’t starting, but stopping. I revise a great deal, adding, subtracting, fine-tuning the prose. Whenever I read over what I’ve written, I find ways to improve it. With The Pharaoh’s Cat, this might have gone on forever if I hadn’t started planning The Eye of Nefertiti.

Your advice for apprentice writers?

The first chapter is the most important and the hardest. Don’t try to please an imaginary reader. It will only inhibit you and your writing will reflect that.

Thank you very much, Maria, for giving us a little insight into your writing experience. It was a pleasure having you on “The Bee Writes…”

You would like to know more about Maria Luisa Lang? Please have a look here:

Maria Luisa Lang on Goodreads

Maria Luisa Lang at Author Amy Shannon Blog

Maria Luisa Lang at Normandy’s Book Reviews


The cat must free Queen Nefertiti from a horrific curse 

The Eye of Nefertiti is both a stand-alone novel and a sequel to The Pharaoh’s Cat. The time-traveling ancient Egyptian feline with human powers returns together with his beloved Pharaoh and his close friends, the High Priest of Amun-Ra and Elena, an Egyptologist’s daughter.

The cat is quick-witted, wise-cracking narrator as well as free-spirited, ever-curious protagonist, and the story he tells is an exotic, imaginative, spell-binding tragicomedy. The cat travels from present-day New York City to England, both ancient and modern, then to ancient Egypt, where he confronts a horrible demon and experiences a sublime emotion. Once back in England, he descends into a psychological abyss so deep only the Pharaoh can save him.

The Eye of Nefertiti interweaves feline and human, past and present, natural and supernatural. It contains numerous surprises, twists and turns, intriguing characters, both human and animal, fascinating revelations about ancient Egyptian history and culture, and an ingenious application of the Tarot and an Italian opera.

The Eye of Nerfertition Amazon

The Eye of Nefertiti on Goodreads

Blast from the Past: The Bee Talks With… M.J. Williams

May 2019

The more I work through my old posts the more I want to interview authors again. Maybe I start this series anew? What do you think?

January 2015

A new year and a new interview. I am so looking forward to all the exciting authors who will be a guest on “The Bee Writes…” this year.

If you are interested: Please feel free to send me an email with the subject “The Bee Talks With…” to bee.halton(at) You can find more information about this interview series here: The Bee Talks With…

Today I am welcoming M.J Williams an author duo consisting of sisters-in-law Peggy Joque Williams and Mary Joy Johnson (nee Williams). They are writing the “On The Way To…” mystery series with their main characters Emily and Stan Remington. Both love to drive an RV and seem to end up in murder mysteries wherever they go.

But enough of the introduction. Let M.J. Williams speak for themselves:

How would you describe yourself in one paragraph?

We are a writing team comprised of Peggy Williams and Mary Joy Johnson (nee Williams). In fact, we are sisters-in-law.  Peggy is an elementary school teacher and a free-lance writer and screenwriter. Mary Joy is a retired college teacher and a professional quilter.

What made you write in the first place?

Peggy has been writing since forever. Her memories of writing go back to grade school. She writes in multiple genres and for multiple forums and media. Mary Joy taught writing on the college level and when approached by Peggy to work together on a mystery thought it would be a good idea to put her words into action.

Which Author has influenced you and why?

For models we look to mystery writers Louise Penny and William Kent Krueger for their character studies and use of setting. But our mentor is Christine DeSmet, author of the Fudge Shop mystery series, who reads our work and pushes us to write to the best of our abilities.

Your writing ritual (if you have one)?

The closest we come to a ritual are the Sunday afternoon writing sessions that take place in Peggy’s dining room while her husband (Mary Joy’s brother) watches football in the living room. However, we will brainstorm, write, and rewrite anywhere and anytime.

Do you suffer from writers block and if so, what do you do against it?

Not “writers block” per se, but we take longer to complete a novel than we would like. We have lots of excuses, such as work and our social lives getting in the way, but sometimes it comes down to fear of not writing well. Then we just have to knuckle down and challenge ourselves to “get ‘er done.”  Deadlines are a good way for us to overcome writers block.

Your advice for apprentice writers?

Don’t be afraid of writing badly. Get those first words onto the page. But never publish bad writing. Don’t be satisfied with just one or two drafts. Find people who know how to write and know your genre and ask them to read and give specific feedback on your work. Continually ask yourself if there is “a better way to say that.” Do a search in your manuscript of words and phrases that you tend to use often and see how frequently you really do use them…then challenge yourself to find a way to say what needs to be said using different words and phrases.

Portrait of P & J Wiliams

You would like to know more about M.J. Williams or want to purchase their books? Please look here:

M.J. Williams on Amazon

M.J. Williams on Facebook

On the Road to Death’s Door (1st in the series)


On the Road to Where the Bell’s Toll (2nd in the series)


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