Now this one is a hard one for me as I do not get on well with my father. In fact, I have not seen him in many years neither do I have any contact. I broke the contact when I moved to Great Britain as I realised that his presence in my life is not good for me.
I know, many people believe that you have to be in contact with your blood family no matter what or believe it is your duty to forgive those who have hurt you. Mind you, I believe I have forgiven him as I let go of the anger, fear and rage his behaviour has caused. That does not mean I need to be in contact with him.
Still, like with my mother, there are fathers in my life who have shown me that “father” means “Love”, “caring” and “protection”.
That is why today we celebrate the fathers in our lives no matter if they are related or not.
Now my darlings: go, create and have lot’s of fun!